Tuesday, November 16, 2010

A Simple Woman's Daybook~November 16, 2010

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So, For Today...Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Outside my window...I am seeing the dappled sunlight on the greenery and driveway and on Clifford The Big Red Dog (our old red van) that is sitting in the driveway and blocking my lovely view. It is full of tools, so Jim needs to put them away this afternoon and move the van down to its usual parking space. That van reminds me of so many design jobs we have done and hauled all kinds of stuff all over creation, including people on lots of fun outings. It is old now, but still serves a purpose so I guess we will be a three car family a bit longer. I guess it is Jim's truck really. How easily the mind wanders...

But back to out the window...So it is one of those great fall days when the sky is bright blue with a few fluffy clouds and it is just warm enough. I love days like this.

I am thinking...I am knee deep in Christmas boxes right now. Jim got them down this morning. Love/Hate with all of that. I love doing it but hate the mess and figuring out where to put the stuff I am taking down to replace them with jolly things. And even worse, remembering where they were originally, come January!

Our house has minimal storage and I can hardly wait until we break ground on Jim's new garage and workshop. Yippee. Most likely that will not be until spring but, maybe this will be the last year of Jim having to crawl around in the attic to get stuff down.

I am thankful for...a husband who bites his tongue nearly off while unloading all the boxes but doesn't complain, at least not to me! Not one word...he is better than me!

From the learning room..I may be winding down on buying Christmas stuff...it is an illness but I am trying to get over it. Enough is enough! But I keep falling in love..how crazy is this really? Don't answer!

I am reading... The Book Thief but I am missing my nightly time with The Help. I was sad that book had a last page. So good.

I am wondering..How much stuff I will get unpacked tonight while Jim is at church doing his Young Men's Service project. They are going to do "Rake and Run' in the dark. Isn't that funny? The boys and Jim will go to different church members' homes and rake their leaves and then run to the next house. God bless 'em is all I can say!

I am hearing...The Prayer with Josh Groban and Celine Dion. Oh my!

Today if I could change one thing...it would be that Jim's cousin, Judy had not been diagnosed with breast cancer last week and that she was not having a radical mastectomy today. Bless her heart and her health. We are praying that they got all the cancer and she will fully recover after her treatments. She just became a Gramma in August. Please say a little prayer for Judy with us!

I am quoting..."The ornaments of a house are the friends who frequent it." Ralph Waldo Emerson How about you all come over and frequent my house and help me with the ornaments?

I am going...to just set a steady pace and not get too freaked out by all the work I have to do in the next couple of weeks. I don't do stress well so I avoid it at all costs but sometimes, it just sneaks right up in your face. So breathe, that is what I am going to do. In for four, out for four. Repeat!

I am missing...my friend, Michelle and the talks we use to have together. She would give me these wonderful pedicures and we would just talk and talk and laugh and solve all the problems of the world in a couple of hours. I think of her so often and pray for her family and the challenges of their life in Canada right now. It is getting darker and colder daily and Michelle loves the great outdoors and lots of sunlight.

One of my guilty pleasures....I'd have to say Christmas decorations while looking around my house today.

Pet Peeves...Same as the answer just above this one.

One of my favorite things...
Same as the answer to my guilty pleasures.

An enjoyable movie I have watched lately...Fly Boys...excellent. How come I am seeing James Franco in so many movies lately. Sure a cute guy and good actor. One of them is Eat Pray Love and next Tuesday we will be seeing it for sale on DVD...I'm there!

I am curious about...
some things I can do for a family in need this Christmas season.

A few plans for the rest of the week..do the deed on this house, shopping for Thanksgiving dinner, Scouting for Food for Jim on Saturday so that will take his whole day. Date night, maybe seeing the new Harry Potter movie if that is what Jim wants to do or staying home and re-watching Fly Boys so he can see it and eat popcorn. I am voting for #2. On Monday we are going to spend the night in Sacramento and go to see a musical called Forgotten Carols. Have wanted to see it for many years so...exciting. Then it is come home late Tuesday and on with the Thanksgiving preparations.

Here is a photo and thought I am sharing with you....

This part is done, I left him up all year in my kitchen.

I do love Christmas and even though it is not quite Thanksgiving. I am getting a good start since we will not be home for Christmas. I want to enjoy it through the whole month that we will be here, before we head for a white Christmas with most of our family!

Monday, November 15, 2010

Remembering My Mom


Today marks the seventh anniversary of her death. It has been a long seven years I have missed her so much. And now as the day is winding down I am thinking of life and thoughts of her and the last seven years I have had to spend without her by my side. I ran across this beautiful poem and wanted it share it with all of us who have a mom in heaven today.

My Mother is Always With Me

My mother is always with me.
She's the whisper of the leaves
as I walk down the street.
She's the smell of bleach
in my freshly laundered socks.
She's the cool hand on my brow
when I'm not feeling well.

My mother lives inside my laughter.
She's crystallized in every tear drop.
She's the place I came from
She's my first home.
She's the map that I follow
with every step that I take.
She's my first l♥ve
and my first heart♥break.
Nothing on earth can separate us.
Not time, not space,
Not even death
will ever separate me
from my mother.
I carry her inside of me.
~Author Unknown
Oh death,where is thy sting? It is only in the missing. The joy comes in the knowing we will be together again, always to be devoted mother and loving daughter. This is the peace I find in my heart this day. You are never forgotten, Mom! Not a day goes by without you in my heart. Today I celebrate you, the life you lead, the life you gave me, and the eternity we have to remember it together.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

A Day In the Countryside of Vermont


We got to drive across this covered bridge,
that was a fun experience!

We were still having a slight amount of rain,
love the rain drops on the window.
We quite enjoy our travels in the rain,
or at least we don't mind it!
It does keep the crowds down!

This overcast sky made a perfect
lighting
situation for the photos!

This was our first stop of the day~
Sugarbush Farm.

The boys were having school so we wanted them to
learn some fun
things along the way on this trip.


This calf was so little and cute.

The horses were beautiful grazing out in this
pristine pasture early in the morning.


The boys would love some animals
but
military life makes that pretty hard
with moving so often.

They had goats and chickens too.
No good photos of the chickens,
they wouldn't stand still and say cheese!


So precious!

This farm has been privately owned by one family for the past three generations and is located near Woodstock, Vermont. The family doesn't live here on the farm anymore, but have a beautiful home not far from this working farm. We arrived a little before they actually opened but the lady that was out taking care of the calf, told us to just wander around and check things out. We walked down the hill to the place where they actually make their maple syrup. We walked around and read the displays and saw the troughs where they process their syrup.

They tap the maple tree and then hang these buckets.

We were interested in the fact that Vermont produces more maple syrup, (followed by Ohio) than any other state and that when they tap the sugar maple trees it takes 40 gallons of the pure sap to make one gallon of the syrup. No wonder real maple syrup is so expensive!!

The syrup is great but if I have to choose, I'll take the leaves!

There are lots of varieties of Maple trees but only the sugar maple and one other variety can be used to make syrup. These hardwood trees, indigenous to the northeast of the US and Canada have this leaf (Canadian Flag) and the above circle of leaves shows us just why this part of the country is so magnificent in the autumn. These leaves are all taken from one tree!

Did you know the sap is clear like water and they do a lot of the work when the temperatures are minus 30? They also make lots of cheeses on the farm and hand cut and wrap in foil and then three layers of wax. They do mail order and it is a great operation. This was a very fun tourist destination, we all enjoyed it.

We were just fascinated with how their family created their legacy of working together for the common good of each generation since 1945. It was a little piece of heaven actually! All except for those subzero temps! We have decided it is pretty awesome to live in our temperate climate and travel to these other places when their weather is perfect.


We are ordering from Sugarbush this year because their products are wonderful and we love the idea of supporting a small family business in a world where they are disappearing because of the struggle to compete. We know because Jim's family had a three generation family dairy business that sold and delivered bottled milk and his Dad made all their delicious ice cream. And Baskin Robbins 31 Flavors did them in. Sadly, the family ice cream was so much better and hand packed, but mass production and so many choices drove them out of the business. So we'd like to do our little part to help keep Sugarbush going! www.sugarbushfarm.com

Saturday, November 13, 2010

On the Road Again~This Time...Vermont

Good-bye Barlett Inn, we enjoyed
your treats but not your tricks!


After our most beautiful drive on the scenic loop we were so grateful we had chosen to move that drive up a day on the advice of the Innkeeper. The weather forecast was promising a big rain storm to follow and they were definitely spot on. We awakened to a dark gray sky and lots of water everywhere.

The trees across the street from the Inn were definitely gorgeous on that dismal morning but we had a chance to see just how much the sunlight plays a part in the beauty of the region. The light and warmth of the sun did in fact play a HUGE role in one of the most beautiful days I have ever experienced, just the day before. We were so excited to head for Vermont and see what adventures it held for our family.

As we traveled through the remainder of the White Mountains we came upon this huge white building. At the time we had no idea what it was but it seems oddly out of place out in the middle of nowhere. The little security building along the road in the foreground can give you a perspective on how immense this place is. We later found out it is a fancy hotel and resort. Made us feel happy about moving on to a place with some amenities as we headed into Quechee, Vermont in hopes of a bathroom with a plug. So if you go to New Hampshire, just know you have a full range of choices for your accommodations! This is the Washington Hotel.

It was a little past lunch time when we arrived at the Visitor's Center in Vermont. It was stormy and cold and very wet but they had this little covered picnic table so we quickly ate there and headed down the road to Quechee. We were so impressed with their Visitors' Center, we just don't have anything like them on the West Coast. New England relies heavily upon and really thrives on their tourism and they put a lot of time and effort into making it a good experience for the traveler. It did not go unnoticed or unappreciated by this family.

On a sunny day this is what Vermont looks like. This photo is from Google Images and one I really appreciate as this was our only rainy, rainy cold day. But the next day we had lots of sun and saw places just like this.


When we arrived in Quechee we noticed this fun looking place right away. As soon as we got settled in our hotel room, we came back here which was only a quarter mile away. This little shopping village had lots of fun stores with art, antiques, designer clothing and jewelry. The Cabot General Store was the center of it all.

They have so many food products and in particular, cheese and dipping sauces and syrups. It was a lot of fun to try some of their samples on oyster crackers. We love Cabot cheddar cheeses but had no idea how many varieties they make and ship. We brought some back for Robert! Laura and I bought several things in the surrounding jewelry stores and I bought a beautiful picture of a Vermont farm house that I have now gotten framed and hanging in our bedroom where the colors (my favorite) are perfecto. I was even able to get Jim's mom some cool earrings for her birthday coming up right after we got home.

The boys had fun with a huge train display they had in the basement of the General Store. We went back the morning we left so they could enjoy it again. We stayed two nights here and that was so nice and relaxing. Jim and I enjoyed a wonderful seafood dinner out. We could walk to the restaurant, The Shepard's Pie, from our hotel. We watched movies, ate that fancy popcorn from Maine and had a great time. Jim and the boys finally had a chance to watch "Holes" together. Laura and I went down to the lobby with the laptop and watched "Leap Year."

The boys and Grampa went swimming and we enjoy a nice breakfast each morning here. We had a great hotel room at the Quality Inn that was clean and spacious and very convenient. ( Yes, they did have a plug in their bathroom!)

They even had a gorge that they say is like a mini Grande Canyon. The mini part is right and the comparison may be a bit of a stretch but it was beautiful and also within walking distance of our hotel. Of course, during our stay the men went to check that all out. Spencer did come back with wet jeans and muddy shoes...don't ask don't tell.

That place looked mighty scary to me with its narrow paths and steep cliffs. I was glad we didn't actually see them hiking around, especially when Spence slipped. Sometimes it is best when Moms and Grammas just look the other way and pray. Thank heavens for a Grampa that watched them closely and would never put them in harm's way. Before long his shoes were all cleaned up and he had a dry pair of pants for the rest of the day.

This photo is taken from the bridge over
Quechee Gorge.
It is a gorgeous place and a
lot deeper and steeper that it looks here.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Confessions of a Treeaholic

Hi, my name is Bonnie and I am a treeaholic! I am embarrassed to show my face because I cannot stop taking pictures of trees and posting them on here. This is becoming a problem, I may lose all my readers! What can I do? I cannot get enough of their beautiful colors. It is an addiction.

The tremendous high I felt in New England is something I cannot stop looking to repeat. Is there a group? A 12-step program? I am dreading when the last leaf falls and it will be gray and dreary outside. I feel like I have to just keep storing up more and more pictures like a squirrel hiding nuts for the winter or a bear preparing for hibernation. It may be some curious reaction to that never-ending winter we had last year. I just want to lie down in the sun and cover myself up in these leaves like our grandson, Zachary, did a few years ago!

I thought I'd be OK when we got home but look what we have discovered. The beautiful autumn leaves have followed us home! We have never seen so many beautiful trees right here at home. This is what we found in our beautiful San Francisco Bay Area today.

Warning: Now is the time to opt out if you
are just sick to death of
Autumn on this blog.
(Fear not we are starting Christmas gathering tomorrow)










I need a meeting......sorry ladies!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Our Own Little Mrs. Ward Cleaver

I just love blogging, no kidding! I love seeing the various things that our kids are thinking about as they share them with us. They have allowed me to swipe whatever I want to share with you so here is one I love that Laura wrote. This brings back so many memories, thanks Loulou!

This post was published back in the beginning of 09. I had forgotten all about it until it came up at the bottom of my last post on Linkwithin. I love that feature on a blog because it does uncover some moldy oldies worth republishing on busy days. So here's Laauurra!

Our Little Mrs. Cleaver

The June Cleaver in Me

"One of the great things about living in a foreign country is that when you turn on the TV everything is... well, foreign. Since I'm not really into TV it works for me but the boys don't like it much. So a few months ago we started looking online for some good TV sitcom DVD collections for the boys to watch. Among the thousands (literally, T-H-O-U-S-A-N-D-S) of options available Robert and I decided to get the first season of Leave it to Beaver.

If you haven't seen Leave it to Beaver in a while- it worth revisiting. I will admit it is a little bit on the cheesy side but it is funny and clean and totally... boy! I have to confess that I love that the boys like it. I love hearing Spencer say "Ah, gee Mom" when I ask him to do something he doesn't want to do and hearing Ross tell me everything is "swell" when I ask him how his day was. I even enjoy watching a episode or two with Spencer and Ross on occasion. But the thing that I really like about Leave it to Beaver is watching June Cleaver in her role as wife and mother.

I don't know about you but I grew up thinking June Cleaver (as the embodiment of the female stay at home mom stereotype) was laughable. Not only did I think she was impractically perfect- I was offended that was the way media thought stay at home moms should be! I thought the sole purpose of her existence was to make normal women ( who clean the house in ratty sweats and occasionally yell at their kids) feel inadequate. Never in my young adult imagination did I ever considered June Cleaver a role model in anyway... but that was before. Having watched her in action recently I have changed my tune.


Here is what I have noticed about June Cleaver. She is patient and kind with her children. She is loving toward her husband. She is witty and spontaneous (in a very traditional sort of way). She is intelligent (though a little too easily tricked by her boys at times). She expects a lot from the people she loves but never turns her back on them when the don't measure up. June Cleaver is perfectly content in her role as a wife and mother. She is never bitter or resentful that her stay at home life style is keeping her from getting the job she always wanted or spending more time with her friends. Her house is spotlessly clean, her yard perfectly manicured, her appearance immaculate. She has snacks ready and waiting when her boys get home from school and dinner on the table every night when her husband gets hom e from work. I mean seriously- isn't that what every woman wants? To be perfectly capable and fulfilled in their role as a woman? To feel as put together and on top of life as June appears to be? I don't know about you but that certainly sounds good to me.


So I've decided to spend some time finding the June Cleaver in me. I know she is in there somewhere- that beautiful, content, fulfilled woman I've always wanted to be. I'll let you know when I find her."

Now, Laura, you know I always dressed and acted like June and cleaned our house in a dress, pearls, apron and heels. All this occurred while you and your siblings played with each other in perfect harmony so I never had to yell at you. And Daddy brought home the bacon arriving promptly at 6:00 pm (with his speckled sport coat and tie on and a calm and happy face) to his steaming hot and delicious dinner!

June and Ward's
Wally and 'The Beave"

A moment of silence,
Barbara Billingsley
who played June Cleaver
passed away at age 94
on October 16, 2010.

Sneaky New Shopping Scams To Know About


By the editors of Shop Smart Magazine

Just as important as knowing how to sniff out great buys is understanding what it takes to avoid rip-offs. And with Internet fraud on the rise, it's getting tougher to outsmart the criminals. Complaints to the Internet Crime Complaint Center, a joint operation of the FBI and the National White Collar Crime Center, jumped 22 percent last year. The complaints include plenty of run-of-the-mill scams, like sellers who steal credit-card numbers or take the money and run. But those are child's play compared with what else is brewing.

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Think you're too savvy to get taken? OK, maybe you don't fall for those e-mails from Nigerian royalty asking you to wire money, but digital criminals are getting sneakier every year. One scam that can trip up even the most cautious consumers involves "skimmers" attached to ATMs. Those devices record account numbers and passwords so that thieves can clean out your bank account.

"These guys are constantly thinking of new ways to swindle you, some of which are quite sophisticated," says Brian Krebs, a computer security expert and author of "Krebs on Security" at Krebsonsecurity.com.

Think you're safer shopping at the mall? Official purse-snatching statistics show there's been a downward trend, but many of those crimes aren't reported to law enforcement officials. And pickpocket activity always jumps around holiday time, says Bob Arno, co-author of "Travel Advisory! How to Avoid Thefts, Cons and Street Scams While Traveling" (Bonus Books, 2003). But you can outsmart even the craftiest swindlers if you know what's in their bag of nasty tricks. Here's a guide to the latest, sneakiest scams, and simple tips that can help you protect yourself.

'Smishing'

How it works "Phishing" is when you get an e-mail from a supposedly trustworthy source, such as your bank or PayPal, claiming a problem with your account and asking for your user name and password. When you respond, your information is stolen and your account is siphoned. "Smishing" is the latest twist on that scam—instead of getting an e-mail, you get a text message. (The word is a combination of "SMS," for short message service, aka text messaging, and "phishing.") You're told to call a toll-free number, which is answered by a bogus interactive voice-response system that tries to fool you into providing your account number and password.

"It works because people don't give their cell-phone numbers out," Krebs says. "If someone has my cell number, I figure it's someone I know." Thieves can use random-dialing telemarketing services to hit on your number, says Rod Rasmussen, president and CTO of IID, an Internet security firm. If you belong to a credit union, be especially wary—members are targets because often the call-back number has a local area code, not an 800 number, which makes victims less likely to suspect a hoax, Rasmussen says.

Prevent it If you get a text alert about an account, don't respond before you verify that it's legitimate. You can do a Google search on the number to see whether it matches your financial institution. Even better, call the customer-service number at your bank or other service provider to give any needed information to a representative.

Teeny, tiny charges

How it works Thieves get hold of your credit- or debit-card number and make very small charges of 20 cents to $10. The charges appear on your bill with an innocuous-sounding corporate name, and a toll-free number may appear next to the charge. But when you call the number, it's either disconnected or you're instructed to leave a message and your call is never returned.

That was precisely the scam that the Federal Trade Commission broke up in June, according to spokesman Frank Dorman. "We don't know where the thieves got the card numbers, but we're looking into that," he says. The scam was successful because most consumers either didn't notice the charges or didn't bother to correct them because the amounts were so small. In all, the crime ring racked up more than $10 million in bogus charges, the FTC estimates.

Prevent it Scrutinize every item on your bill every month, and question those you don't recognize. (Some charges, but not all, will list a phone number.) If you think a charge is fraudulent, notify your card company as soon as possible but no later than 60 days after the charge appears. By law, the card company must remove the disputed amount from your account while it investigates. Worst case, by law you're liable for only the first $50 on a credit card. (In most cases, Visa and MasterCard will cover the full amount.) Debit cards offer fewer protections: You must report the problem two days after you notice it. If you don't, you could be liable for the first $500 in fraudulent charges. If you wait more than 60 days after your statement is mailed, you could lose all the money in your account.

Skimmers

How it works Skimmers, devices that thieves attach to ATMs or gas pumps to steal your debit account number and password, have been around for years—and they're not going away. They're getting even more sophisticated.

The devices are placed at the mouth of the card-acceptance slot and record the data off of the magnetic strip on the back of your ATM card when you slide it into the machine. Crooks will usually plant a second device, such as a hidden camera or a transparent plastic PIN pad overlay, that's used to record your PIN when you type it in. In the early days of skimming, the thief had to return to the ATM or gas pump to retrieve the apparatus. But now, Krebs says, wireless technology enables the devices to be rigged to send account information via text message to the thief's cell phone. "The thief can be down the street in a coffee house or halfway around the world," he says. "As long as he's got a working phone signal, he can get the information sent to him right away and start using it."

Prevent it Use credit cards and avoid using non-bank ATMs. Those machines are generally located in areas that are less secure, making it easier for thieves to tamper with them. And check the card slot: If there's a plastic strip or plastic film sticking out, or anything glued to the card reader, go elsewhere. If your card is stuck inside the card slot, do not leave the machine. Use your cell phone to call your bank branch or the 24-hour service number to report the problem.

Membership programs

How they work You're buying from a large, reputable website but just before you click the "confirm" button on your purchase, you see a pop-up window or banner ad with an offer such as "$10 Cash Back on Your Next Purchase!" Here's the catch. By accepting that so-called deal, you're agreeing to enroll in a Web discount program that's run by a completely separate company. Those programs, which have innocuous names such as "Reservation Rewards," "Travel Values Plus," or "Great Fun," often provide a 30-day trial period during which you get discounts on a variety of merchandise and services. After that, a monthly membership fee, usually $10 to $20, will appear on your credit-card bill—even though you never gave that outside company your card number.

Sounds dicey, doesn't it? A Senate committee headed by Jay Rockefeller, D-W.Va., thought so, too. Last year, the committee launched an investigation into three large companies that sell memberships to those discount clubs: Affinion Group, Vertrue, and Webloyalty. The committee's report was issued last November and alleged, among other things, that "misleading 'Yes' and 'Continue' buttons cause consumers to reasonably think they are completing the original transaction, rather than entering into a new, ongoing financial relationship with a membership club operated by Affinion, Vertrue, or Webloyalty."

The problem is so ubiquitous that in May, Rockefeller introduced a bill to ban that and other misleading sales practices. Meanwhile, the three companies mentioned in the report have pledged to change their ways. Previously, customers' credit-card numbers were provided to the discount company by the original site without the consumer's knowledge. After the investigation began, all three companies started to require consumers to type in, at a minimum, the last four digits of their card number to make it clear that they are entering into a separate transaction. We'll be on the lookout for whether those changes are enough to keep consumers from being duped.

Prevent it Be wary of pop-up windows or banner ads that promise an additional discount before you complete a transaction. If you do click on an offer, take the time to read the fine print. Scrutinize your credit-card statement every month and question any unfamiliar charges, no matter how small. Check your e-mail inbox and spam folder because Web loyalty programs often send a notification e-mail before they start charging your credit card, when you still have time to cancel.

Stripped gift cards

How it works Thieves look for gift cards that are displayed on grab-and-go racks, such as in grocery and department stores. They use a handheld scanner—which you can buy online for just a few hundred dollars—to read the code behind the magnetic or scratch-off strip on the back of the card. That, combined with the card number on the front, gives them everything they need to steal the value of the card. Then they put the card back on the rack. Later an unsuspecting buyer purchases the worthless gift card. Even if a card isn't preloaded, a thief can steal the card number and security code, then call the 800 number shown on the card every few days to check the balance. Once a shopper has purchased the card and loaded it with a dollar amount, the thief can spend it before the purchaser does.

Prevent it Buy cards that are behind a customer-service desk, says Tom Browning, vice president of corporate compliance and chief security officer for AlliedBarton Security Services. Inspect the card; if the magnetic or peel-off strip on the back isn't pristine, the card might have been tampered with. When buying a preloaded card, ask the cashier to scan it to make sure the full value is on it. If you're buying from a third-party gift-card site, look at the refund policy. And always hang on to the receipts. If something goes wrong, it can help you—or the gift recipient—get a refund.

Counterfeit electronics

How it works Counterfeiting might seem like old news, but it's still going strong—in fact, stronger than ever. Last year, U.S. Customs and Border Protection made 14,841 seizures of fake and pirated goods worth $261 billion, an all-time high. The counterfeits seized included the usual suspects—footwear, apparel, and accessories—plus a huge number of electronics. "A knockoff handbag may not present a direct risk to consumers," says Anthony Toderian, spokesman for CSA International, which tests and certifies products, "but counterfeit electronics certainly do." Fake goods could have substandard wiring, faulty fuses, flammable plastic casings, and harmful chemicals such as lead and mercury. All kinds of electronics have been illegally copied, including computers, phones, and handheld gaming devices, he says. Although online shopping and auction sites and deep-discount stores are the most likely places those fakes will pop up, some have made their way onto the shelves of major retailers. "Buyers for stores can be fooled just as easily as regular consumers can," Toderian says.

Prevent it Look for a label stating that the product has been certified by CSA International or Underwriters Laboratory. (Go to CSA -International. org and click on "Certification Marks" to see what genuine labels look like. At UL.com, go to the search box and type in "How to spot fakes.") Look at the product, too. Are there misspellings on the package? If the box is see-through, does it contain all of the listed components, including batteries, cases, and power cords? Is the manufacturer's contact information, including address and phone number, clearly displayed? When in doubt, buy from well-known retailers that offer a full refund.

3 simple ways to protect yourself

Get the right security software In recent tests, we found two great, downloadable programs that protect against viruses, spyware, and other online threats at no charge. Try Avira, at www.free-av.com, or Microsoft Security Essentials, at www.microsoft.com/security_essentials.

Fight fraud There are several useful resources for ensuring your online safety. Bookmark these!

FTC.gov The Federal Trade Commission's site has lots of fact sheets that tell you what to do you if you've been scammed. Under the Consumer Protection tab, click on "Consumer Information" and then "Shopping for Products & Services." Don't miss the helpful primers on what to do if you're billed for merchandise you never receive and "How to right a wrong."

Safeshopping.org This site is sponsored by the American Bar Association and is packed with advice on safe payment methods, protecting your privacy when you shop, and other need-to-know topics.

OnGuardOnline.gov This site has tips on Internet shopping and is sponsored by government agencies. Quizzes test your knowledge of spyware, online auctions, ID theft, and more.

Antiphishing.org The Anti-Phishing Working Group, an industry-sponsored association, has a tip sheet on how to avoid being scammed. Click on "Consumer Advice," then "How to Avoid Phishing Scams."

Check sellers Before you do business with anyone, go to the Better Business Bureau, at www.bbb.org/us. Grades A to F are based on how long the seller has been in business and how good a job it does resolving complaints. Other sites that are worth a look include SiteJabber.com, Complaints.com, and RipoffReport.com, for its user reviews. Also do a Google search of the site or retailer and the word "complaints."

Hang on to your handbag!

Bob Arno, an author and anti-theft consultant, has traveled the world secretly filming pickpockets. So he knows their tricks and how to thwart them. Here's his advice:

Get a grip Thieves are just as likely to snatch your purse as to slip a hand inside it to grab a wallet. So keep your handbag tight against your body and in front of you at all times. And when you're sitting down in the food court at the mall, don't sling your purse behind you on the chair. Even if you think you're maintaining physical contact with your bag, leaning forward for just a second is all the opportunity a thief needs to grab it. And never put it on the floor, even if it's in front of you.

Nix knapsacks They're back in style, but any bag that's not within your view is a juicy target for skilled pickpockets, no matter how securely it's fastened. And avoid purses with open compartments. Bags with zippers are best.

Keep your focus A classic ploy of purse thieves is to create a diversion—pointing at something, talking loudly, holding open a map and asking for directions, or spilling something on your coat then offering to clean it up. It can happen in a restaurant or a busy mall. Whenever anyone approaches you, be sure to firmly hold your purse and keep it in front of you.

Pare down your wallet Do you really need to bring all of your credit cards and ID cards with you? Leave everything except the necessities at home. And never routinely carry around anything with your Social Security number on it. (Photocopy all of the cards in your wallet, just in case.)

Be smart with your car Park in well-lit areas. If it's still daylight but you plan to shop for a while, park under a street lamp or in a well-lit garage. Always put up your windows and lock the car. If you go back to your car to stow packages, put them in the trunk—visible boxes and bags are magnets for thieves. Don't load up with so many packages that your purse dangles from your arm, out of your sight. Take advantage of curbside pickup or ask the store to hold bags for you. If someone tries to grab your purse, don't resist. "It's not worth losing your life over," Arno says. Also, if you have a GPS device in your car, program it so that your "home" setting isn't your home address. Instead, use the school or church down the street, or crooks will know how to get to your house while you're out. GPS thefts are also on the rise, so don't leave any visible trace of one in your car, including the mount.

Check sellers Before you do business with anyone, go to the Better Business Bureau, at www.bbb.org/us. Grades A to F are based on how long the seller has been in business and how good a job it does resolving complaints. Other sites that are worth a look include SiteJabber.com, Complaints.com, and RipoffReport.com, for its user reviews. Also do a Google search of the site or retailer and the word "complaints."

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